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Dear coco,

It was a really nice long post about your Malaysia trip. I hope you enjoyed yourself and coping with your intership well enough. But i really have to tell you that i'm quite disappointed with the comments that you made about johnny boy. I'm not angry or anything but it's just i felt like i needed to say something.

That day when you asked me "Ally, do you rmb that i said i would only know whether Jb is suitable for you until i meet him?" First of all, i don't remember you saying that. It didn't even come across my mind. then you started continue saying that he wasn't meant for me and he's too old and stuff. well, i do appreciate your comment but definitely i was offended so was Jb too. You need not say that right at him right? We were both offended but yet we just took it openly.

I just thought that you shouldn't make such comments as it may be very sensitive. It's ok for us but just in case for other couples. It's not really nice to say things like that. I know that he is old looking and not hot at all but what matters most is the heart. because of his heart that is pure and loyal, I chose him. Because he is sincere and he takes our relationship seriously, i chose him. Because he is a good person in a way that he has a soft heart, i chose him. Because he cares and respects me, i chose him. Because i know i can trust him, i chose him. I do not choose people on how they look like. Judgement based on appearance is the most dangerous thing.

For instance, having a hot boyfren doesn't mean that you will be happy, doesn't mean that you are loved. In fact, a hot guy mayb dangerous. Therefore, appearance is not something you make such judgement.

Furthermore, i just feel that you shouldn't make such judgement on the first day you meet a person. Just like they say "Do not judge a book by it's cover" You just met Jb once in person and immediately that changed your views upon him. I confessed that yes, i do judge somebody like how you judged Jb. But i'm slowly accepting her and trying to know her more. Hoping that my views are wrong. Just like how i hope that you will view Jb differently.

Secondly, how you described Jb on your recent post just gave the impression that Jb is like something disgusting and totally ugly. Quote "yuck" really is not necessary. I just thought that no matter how ugly a person is, he or she deserves some respect. We just have to accept it because this is how they look like. Just put yourself in Jb's shoes, how would you feel if someone made those comments on you? Definitely it's not nice. I know we should accept other ppl's comments openly. However, i thought that these comments were just too much.

I might not have a good taste or anything. But That's ok. what i can see and i know is that i can differenciate ppl: who should i be frens with and who i should stay away. Choosing you as my good fren was not a mistake just like i chose Jb. You are a really nice fren and i really love you too. However, this is something which i thought i should say on behalf of Jb.

Anyway, have a nice internship. take care
-ally-